Not only that, actions like this can also make your child receive the message that he is also allowed to do the same thing as a child you are angry. That way you shouldn’t be surprised that when you do physical punishment, your child will respond by pinching or hitting you again instead of subsiding. So that you don’t fall for emotions, you should try to be quicker in responding before your child becomes very fussy. It’s a good idea to find out the real condition of your child, whether your child is hungry, tired, sick or other causes. If it turns out that nothing happened to your child but is still fussy and your emotions have increased, it’s a good idea to stay away from your child for a moment. But make sure your child is in a safe state, then inhale deeply and slowly repeatedly, after the emotions have subsided a little you can meet your child again.
Sometimes when you are fussy, your child just wants to get attention. Usually occurs at the age of toddlers. When they are toddlers, children still cannot express their desires clearly. It’s a good idea to leave the busyness you are doing for some time, you can focus on your child. If you remain calm and patient, you can easily read his wants and needs even though your child cannot clearly say it in words.
Another impact caused by this physical punishment is the emergence of uncomfortable feelings in the child because your child is required to bear the physical punishment that has been given by the parents if your child violates the limit of what the parents have set. So it is not surprising that so many children who have the perception of discipline are suffering. This perception does not only occur in children, but is often experienced by their parents. With so many parents allowing their children to run happily without having to be disciplined. Of course this is a very wrong thing, because in the following developmental period your child will become an individual who experiences problems and confusion because he does not know the various rules of himself.
So it’s a good idea to apply discipline to your children from an early age, but discipline in this definition is meant in how we teach children about moral behavior in order to be accepted by the group. This aims to instill in children good behavior, but still within reasonable limits and do not carry out physical punishment.