In every household, the role of a mother is very necessary. No matter how good a father is, it is still undeniable that he cannot replace the role of mother. This compassion, sensitivity and meekness are the divine nature that a man does not have. For a child, it is their mother’s sensitivity and tenderness that they usually use to share and pour out their heart and all the burdens and problems of life.
The character of a mother is very important for every child, both girl and boy. But especially for boys, for them the mother is their first love and true dream, someone who can educate them to be responsible and loving. Now, for mothers, how important is your role and duty in educating your sons to be good and responsible individuals.
Here are some rules that you should apply to your little hero:
1. Teach Your Son To Respect Women
Educating a boy is generally more difficult than a girl. Especially when the child is angry. When girls are angry, maybe he will just cry and whine, in contrast to boys, emotions that are so explosive will make boys dare to hit you while crying when they are angry. Teach your children not to do this. Because after all this is not good to do even when the child is still in the stage of controlling his emotions. Give understanding to children to open doors for you and other women. Also give the understanding that women are creatures that must be respected and protected.
2. Set an Example Your Son Can Follow
The theory of a rule alone will not be enough to make your son a good person, your son needs a real person he can emulate. For that, give expression to your son how his father is a great figure. This will also help build the child’s respect for his father. In addition, encourage your husband to include your son when doing chores around the house.
3. Teach Regarding Courtesy and Cleanliness
Teaching hygiene is not just a theory that should be taught to girls only. Boys also need to learn this lesson. Teach your children to learn to take care of themselves, cut their own nails and comb their own hair. This will build good health habits in your son.
So, those are some rules that mothers should apply to their sons and daughters at home. Teaching children from an early age about the rules they need to maintain will certainly be more easily absorbed and are expected to become a habit until they become adults.