Parents are a reflection of life for their children. Because parents are the ones who educate and raise them to adulthood. In addition, parents are also figures who play an important role in a household. Making him an admired figure and a role model for his children. For this reason, it is not surprising that children will tend to imitate everything their parents do.
Every action done by children is generally inseparable from what they see and hear from their surroundings. This is what they try to realize by imitating it. Thus we can imagine how important the role of parents is for their children. And how big is the danger of parents if they have bad behavior in sight and hearing for their children.
Well, here are some lists of behaviors that parents should not do because this will be dangerous for the child’s development, especially in terms of ethical and moral formation.
Actions are the easiest activities to see. Generally, a child’s tendency is to practice more often what they see for the first time. For example, when the child watches their favorite show, the child will automatically start making efforts to imitate his favorite character in the show. This also happens when parents have bad behavior. Can you imagine if their parents often do things that are not reprehensible, such as passing wind, picking their nose or littering, then don’t be surprised if you find your child often does the same thing.
Smoking is a bad habit for a father if it is done in front of his children, especially if this activity is also done by a mother. Besides being dangerous for children’s health, this will also affect the child’s mindset that thinks that this is allowed. Children will tend to think that everything their parents do in front of their child is considered something they are legally doing. If this happens, the most dreaded danger will occur, namely that the child will imitate and learn to smoke. Things like this have been proven a lot at this time, for example, you will easily find children who are still underage such as junior high school children who have started smoking on the roadside and skipping school.
In a household, a problem is often a trial. Both petty quarrels and big problems may have occurred in the household. However, it should be, however small or how big the problem is, parents should be able to guard and not fight their fights in front of their children. Because this will have a negative impact on vision and hearing on a figure who should be an example for children. When quarrels have become a habit in the household, this will make children feel uncomfortable at home. If this happens, there will be a more dangerous impact on the child, namely the child who could be caught in the wrong association.
This is a list of some harmful parenting behaviors child development. By knowing how dangerous the impact of this behavior is if it is done in front of it, it is hoped that parents can be more careful not to do it in front of children.