1. Prepare a gift
Generally, after the birth of your baby, often family and friends visit to see the baby with gifts. This indirectly gives a feeling of discomfort to the older sibling so that to reduce jealousy, you can use attention directed to the older sibling. You can prepare a gift for your brother through the help of another family member to give so that the attention can reduce his social jealousy.
2. Do not give excessive burden
When the ages of the first child and the second child are not much different, around 1-3 years old, you have to pay attention to the burden you place on the older sibling. Do not give heavy work so that it is not appropriate for your age, especially if you do not know right or wrong in your actions. One example is leaving a 3 year old sister with her younger sibling in the house.
3. Give special time for older siblings
Having a new baby will of course take up your time so the best of maintaining a relationship with your first child can steal time away from something special. This will not cause the older sibling’s thoughts to be pushed aside because of the presence of the younger sibling, so inviting the older sibling to play or just take an evening walk has made her feel comfortable feeling the mother’s love.
4. Avoid blaming the older sibling when they fight
You should avoid giving calls or titles that the older sister is naughty and doesn’t understand the needs of your little one. Even though the first child, who was not much different from the second child, did not understand how to treat his younger sibling so that when he made the act of pinching or squeezing his sister’s hand it was considered not to make his younger sibling sick. Give understanding so that it can make him understand and understand the needs of his younger sibling
5. Remind His Childhood
One of the ways you can do to build a good relationship between siblings and siblings is to show a photo album when your siblings are young, in between showing pictures you can tell your child’s happy childhood and tell you that when you were a baby there were lots of happy moments. immortalized. When you see the photos, you can explain the love that is given to you is the same as that which is being experienced by his younger brother.
In conclusion, for those of you who are happy with the increase in your family members, it would be good for you to provide the right understanding so that the older siblings can accept their younger siblings well and do not cause social jealousy.