Too often helping him through all his troubles will not build his self-confidence, so he tends to be more spoiled because he feels defended by his parents. These attitudes can make your child seem naughty and difficult to provide supervision. Before you conclude that your child is naughty, you have to look at it from two sides because bad children are not always rebellious children who have no ability. Naughty does have two meanings, namely creative, resourceful so that your child who is given advice seems to have his own opinion to complete his activities. The naughty you have to watch out for in supervising children are naughty who tend to mean towards crime, crime, lack of manners.
In psychology, naughty children are called behavioral disorders (GTL), namely behavior deviations in a form that is detrimental to others. Bad things done by your children can be because of their personal, group, either spontaneously or planned. The characteristics of naughty who have behavior disorders are usually tend to be stubborn, difficult to beat, disobedient, can plan violence and he does not regret his behavior. Every child needs parental supervision, it is possible that the environment can make your child naughty. It is better if your supervision during the growth and development of children with the environment must always be considered even though that does not mean prohibiting or limiting their social interactions, it would be better if supervising naughty children is more extra than other children.
Here are ways to provide supervision for naughty children that you can do:
1. Give examples of behavior
Your time does not allow you to accompany your child either at home or in the environment so that the right supervision for you is to provide a strong personality provision before your child interacts with the environment. Of course, done since infancy to get the best example from the parents. Give examples of good behavior in several story books before he sleeps, give him positive meanings that he can take, make it a habit to be with him when watching TV, bad effects can occur from the use of technology that is not wise. Encourage your child to watch and listen to positive behavior.
2. Supervision does not mean violence
When your child rebels with your advice, don’t rush your emotions because violence will actually set a bad example and form a child’s temperament. For those of you who often solve problems with violence, it should be avoided this will make the closeness of you and the child become tenuous so that the child tends to be closed with his problems, you will find it difficult to monitor him.
3. Supervision does not mean curbing
Providing supervision for naughty children does not mean providing restraint; it provides responsibility, freedom and also directional control. Sometimes you actually provide clean supervision to the point that stalking him in every activity this will form a person who lacks confidence. If indeed your child is classified as naughty in your opinion, take the best way to manage it so that it can grow properly and naturally.