In childhood, the curiosity and curiosity of children is so great, it’s no wonder because this is a period of exploration of the world around them.
A lot of asking questions, running around, touching things and even approaching everything whether it’s dangerous or not, this is what at least the kids do. It’s just that, the behavior of children with such high curiosity often makes us parents dizzy and frustrated with their behavior. Especially when child’s behavior This has disturbed other people and harmed many people, this of course will make parents embarrassed and reluctant to bring back the baby when there is a moment or event. But also, there are many small events that involve many people which make their chances of interacting with the crowd even greater. If only your little one is not ignorant and likes playing around with other people, you will definitely be happy to take them anywhere.
But whether it is denied or not, interacting with the environment is a certainty. When your little one is a toddler, you may be able to control them by locking them up at home and limiting their play space with other people. However, when they grow up to be children at school age, this is something that is difficult for you to prevent and control. However, your little one already has friends and the environment, namely his own school.
However, this is what makes you even more dizzy and demands that you work extra by having to accompany your child wherever your child goes to avoid the treatment of children that can harm others, such as fun by poking, throwing, pushing, threatening, throwing things away, hiding things, hitting and even bite. Of course, this will make other children unhappy with your child’s treatment. As a result, children who are ignorant and prankster will find it difficult to make friends and are not liked by other children.
However, prank and delinquency in children is a natural thing. However, if this is done within normal limits. Because generally this is done to show the existence and ego of the child. There are many causes that can actually be the background attitude of the child who is ignorant and likes fun. So, before we overcome ignorance and prankiness in children, we should identify what causes this to happen.
Recognize the Causes of Impossible in Children
Great Curiosity in Children
The first cause that may occur in children who are ignorant and prankster by doing disrespectful actions towards peers or other people may be the background due to the factor of being accidental due to their great curiosity. When someone says that twisting their ears hurts and if it is done to other people it will make them angry, then this angry expression is what they want to know.
Want to Show Aggressiveness
Another thing that also causes a child to be ignorant is his behavior that wants to show his aggressiveness towards others. There are several types of children present in society, those who are shy and are often used as objects and there are also those who are confident but too domineering. Usually children who are ignorant have a character that is too confident and wants to show others that they are not the quiet, weak type.
In Order To Attract Attention
When children need attention from friends, parents or even people around them while they have no other way to show their existence, children will tend to do things that will make our attention focused on them. This includes naughty children, including teasing the theme. When children do mischief they assume that they will get attention right away.
Well, some of the causes above are just a handful of sources that make a child become ignorant and like to have fun. As for dealing with and dealing with such children, some of these things will help you solve them.
Confronting and Coping with Impossible and Fun Children
Identify the Sources and Causes of Children to Be Naughty
Like some of the causes above, you also need to find out if you have other reasons why your child can be fun and ignorant to friends and their environment. If the child’s delinquency is done on the basis of curiosity, then respond positively as long as the behavior shown by the child is still in a reasonable stage. Meanwhile, if done in order to seek attention, then give the attention he wants. Take time for them and respond to any complaints, it could be that you don’t spend too much quality time with them.
On the other hand, if you find that children’s delinquency and ignorance are carried out in order to channel their aggressiveness, then channel them into better things such as inviting children to do outdoor activities such as sports and so on.
Provide Understanding That Impossible Is Not Behavior
When you find your children are very difficult to manage and are very happy to tease their friends. So tell your children in language that they can easily understand that ignorant behavior is not a good deed. Tell him that the consequences or consequences of his actions will make him friendless and disliked by other people.
Provide Firm Sanctions
When you have given understanding to the children and given them advice, the children still often playfully act ignorantly towards their friends. Then this is the time for you to give strict sanctions to them. Give sanctions that will make children feel deterred and do not want to repeat these mistakes. Suppose “take” the child’s fun for a while and return it immediately when they regret it and do not repeat the action. This way the child will think twice about when they will do the action.
Avoid Providing Physical Punishment
The behavior of a child who is ignorant and likes to have fun is naughty and not praiseworthy. It is not wise if you face this condition by giving violence to children. Especially if you remember the criteria of each child are different. You may find your friend’s child submissive when the parent gives him the pinch. But that doesn’t mean it will work with your child, especially if you are violent. Instead of working, this will actually make the child tougher and rebel against your advice.
Besides, the path of violence is not the best solution in educating them. For this reason, it is better to overcome it by understanding the character of the new child by giving strict sanctions that can deter them from repeating similar mistakes.
Having a child who is ignorant and likes to have fun with friends and people around him, of course, will make us embarrassed and dizzy. For this reason, knowing what is able to discipline and educate them will help you deal with children who are ignorant a
nd prankster. Hopefully these tips will be useful for mothers and all parents in educating them our beloved baby.