All the problems in life introduce us to various feelings. Everything can be overcome by sincerely accepting Allah’s destiny and believing there is a purpose behind it.
Patience does not mean giving up and giving up. Rather, keep the mind calm and find solutions to all problems. Because like the wise words of scholars, Allah will not give a trial that cannot be overcome by His servants.
There are some words of patience and sincerity when being a mother in caring for a child.
Here are some tips for being patient and sincere for a mother in caring for a child:
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1. Think Positive
When you fall and are faced with repeated problems, it is very difficult to think positively. You can lose more if you constantly complain. Make Islamic wise words, heart conditioning and motivation as guidelines, especially from the words of the scholars.
2. Avoid getting angry
In the household, it is important to be patient in dealing with your husband, to be patient with your wife and to be patient with life. There is a source of reward for people who are patient and sincere. Facing everything with a cool head is the right place to start.
To avoid getting angry, always recite istigfar and remember to the Supreme Being that He will give better later than now.
Disappointed with fate or children is the feeling one experiences when expecting from someone else. Hope only in the Creator and be patient in dealing with spouses, children, parents. Because humans are in the wrong place.
4. Positive Activities
Sincerity in worship, pray and believe will be granted. There are a few things that can be tried are positive activities. In addition, being sincere in doing good and working will quickly open up financial problems. What are the positive activities that you do?
5. Worship and Relaxation
Make no mistake, work also includes worship. Sincerity in working and enriching knowledge with Islamic wisdom words will be motivation. Even worship can be an activity to let go of the burden of thoughts and surrender. You will be more relaxed and more positive about life.
6. Beware of illness due to emotional problems
There are no words of patience and sincerity in life that are more effective than heart-conditioning Islamic words of wisdom. Beware of various liver diseases that interfere with health. Therefore, not being grumpy is important to maintain emotional stability.
7. Stress Management
Face various problems by knowing how to deal with them. People sometimes get angry and become a source of stress. Tips for dealing with children are the same as dealing with other life problems. It takes patience and expertise.
8. Believe the Creator Does Not Turn
Be patient with what is asked, because if it hasn’t been granted it may indeed be the best thing. The divine secret is at best the Creator is according to the prejudice of His servant. Therefore be sincere and patient in life.
9. Strengthen Intention
If you want to be successful, then be sincere in everything you do. Sincerity in work, worship and charity. Immediately if you have the intention and don’t worry. Surrender yourself to Allah after exerting all your efforts.
10. Get closer to family
Tips for dealing with children, husbands and wives are to accept them as they are. It is unfair to expect other people to change while they have to accept you. Treat others especially family like you are coldly treated.
11. Surround Yourself With Good People
The best friends are those who have a positive influence. Apart from receiving advice from the wise words of scholars, a positive friend can be a means to train oneself to be patient and sincere.
Those are some tips for being patient and sincere in life that are easy to understand and practice in everyday life. Sincerely accepting God’s destiny is also accompanied by patiently dealing with wives, husbands, children and various world problems. Starting from easy things and now to become a more patient and sincere person.